Eleventh Sunday in Ordinary Time | USCCB
Faith Is All About Relationships.
Every day, I pray before the Blessed Sacrament for people who have asked for my prayers. Of course, family members and friends are mentioned to the Lord, especially those who have left the Church’s sacramental life. I think of Jesus on the cross, praying, “Father, forgive them. They do not know what they are doing.”
If someone didn’t know the value of gold, it would only be a rock to them. (Pause)
But if they knew the value of gold in today’s market, they would sacrifice today for a better tomorrow.
Jesus told his disciples not to enter pagan territory, but only to the lost sheep of Israel.
The lost sheep… Family holds a special place in our hearts, particularly for those who are not practicing their faith and do not join us for Mass on weekends. I hear this from Moms and Dads all the time. “I pray and pray for them. What can I do?” they ask me.
We are all rookies and need the experience of sharing how our relationship with the Lord affects our lives. If they are to hear us, our words and actions, particularly our attitudes, must be filled with the hospitality and kindness of the Lord Jesus, inspiring hope that change is possible.
I’ve discovered that when I pray for family and friends who aren’t part of the Church’s sacramental life anymore, it seems like the Lord is gently working in my heart, too. One of the most challenging aspects to overcome with relatives and friends is judgment. Letting go of the need to be right opens a space for peace and humility, allowing the Lord to work through us.
You and I cannot persuade anyone of anything without first loving and accepting them as they are. Caring for them is paramount. So, let’s start with the goodness in people’s hearts. Let us compliment them on all the good they do and suffer with them in their sorrows and disappointments.
Sometimes, our communion with them occurs before their Holy Communion with Jesus. We do what we can to alleviate their pain and suffering. When they know we genuinely care about them and their lives, Jesus can break through in the most natural yet remarkable ways.
Gospel Challenge:
Give kindness a chance to grow, and they will welcome the words we share. Always respond to their needs and never force the gospel or faith on anyone. Wait for them to ask what makes you tick. Now they are hungry for Jesus. Always remember, Jesus works best through our kindness and prayers.
Be patient and trust in the Lord’s timing. Pray to St. Monica, who prayed 33 years for her son St. Augustine’s conversion. He changed from a selfish, immoral life to become a great early Church saint. His love for God’s Word shaped early theology and continues to impact us.
Invite St. Monica to be a close friend.
Love Your Neighbor!
Fr. Rick Pilger, IC
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