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Love the Lord first and then your neighbor.
Reflect on the last meaningful conversation you had with someone. Did you make eye contact and notice the tone in their voice? How did you feel when they trusted you enough to share something intimate about themselves?
Meaningful conversations form the foundation of loving relationships and enduring friendships. Sadly, society is increasingly losing its capacity for genuine connection. In an interview, Sherry Turtle states, “How Smartphones Are Killing Conversation,” and shares the following statistic:
“Eighty-nine percent of Americans say that during their last social interaction, they took out a phone, and 82 percent said that it deteriorated the conversation they were in. Basically, we’re doing something that we know is hurting our interactions.”
While cell phones and other gadgets might sometimes make us feel more distant and can lead to superficial relationships if we’re not cautious, they don’t change the fact that we genuinely need intimacy to truly love and connect with each other.
In the greatest commandments, Jesus shares a beautiful secret that can open up all our barriers: “Love the Lord your God with your whole heart and soul and your neighbor as yourself.” When Jesus resides in our hearts, we find a sense of peace and courage, trusting that we are loved and accepted just as we are.
The Lord’s perfect love (1 John 4:18) warmly dismisses any fears about our weaknesses and sins. When we grow close to Jesus, it naturally encourages us to be more open and vulnerable with one another.
Gospel Challenge:
Would you consider spending some quality time away from your cell phone to focus on the Lord? Dedicating just fifteen minutes a day, or even moments throughout the day, can make a wonderful difference. Over time, you’ll see how your relationships grow richer and more meaningful. It’s a beautiful part of how God designed us to connect and align with His love.
Peace everyone.
Love Your Neighbor!
Fr. Rick Pilger, IC
