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Faith Is All About Relationships.
Every day, I pray before the Blessed Sacrament for family members and friends who have left the Church’s sacramental life. I think of Jesus on the cross, praying, “Father, forgive them. They do not know what they are doing.” If someone didn’t know the value of gold, it would be just a rock to them.
But if they knew the value of gold in today’s market, they would sacrifice today for a better tomorrow. Jesus told his disciples not to enter pagan territory, but only to the lost sheep of Israel. The Lord wants us to evangelize our family and friends before reaching out to people we don’t know. “Go to the lost sheep of Israel.”
We are all rookies and need the experience of sharing how our relationship with the Lord shapes our life experiences. If they are to hear us, our words and actions, especially our attitudes, must be filled with the kindness and welcome of the Lord Jesus.
I have found that when I pray for family and friends who no longer participate in the Church’s sacramental life, the Lord has work to do in me. One of the most challenging obstacles to overcome with relatives and friends is judgment. The belief that I am right and they are wrong is a barrier to the Lord working in their hearts through me.
Gospel Challenge:
You and I can’t convince anyone of anything without loving and embracing them as they are. So let’s start with the goodness in people’s hearts. Let us compliment them on their achievements and share their sorrows and disappointments. We do what we can to ease their pain and suffering. Be their good shepherd. Remember, it is through our genuine care and kindness that Jesus can truly make a difference in their lives.
When they know we have a genuine interest in them and their lives, Jesus can break through in the most natural but remarkable ways. Give trust a chance to grow, and they will welcome the words we share. Always respond to their needs and never force the gospel on anyone. Wait for them to ask what makes you tick. Now they are hungry for Jesus. Always remember, Jesus works best through our kindness. Be patient and trust in the Lord’s timing.
Love Your Neighbor!
Fr. Rick Pilger, IC
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